To achieve success in business, you must never react negatively to any situation.   Instead, you should always see the silver lining or learn the valuable lesson.   If you do not see the silver lining then you will always feel like a victim of life. You will not actually BE a victim but you will still feel it.   If you do not learn valuable lessons from a situation then you will never be able to deal with life properly and everything will feel ‘awful’. It will not actually BE awful but you will feel it all the same.