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AndyTolbert Category: Business Strategies
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Posted on: 05/03/2008
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The #1 secret rule of negotiating...ASK!

"You miss 100% of the shots you never take"

You may have heard this quote before, it's been attributed to hockey great Wayne Gretzky, and also to his father saying it to Wayne.

But what does it mean?  I'm not a hockey follower, but I can figure out that it means that if you never even attempt the shot...you will definitely never make it.  Kind of like negotiating!  If you never even ask for what you want, there is no way they will ever say yes.  So I want you to practice a new habit...asking!

Ask for a discount on that blouse with a missing button, ask a seller to pay the closing costs, ask your kids to help clean the house, and ask your boss for a raise...if you never ask, they will never say yes.

So, the number one rule to getting what you want in a negotiation is...ASK!

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Brad

Posted By: Brad on 05/04/2008

The bible qoute was taken out of context.  That statement is meant for you to ask God and he will provide for you.  Not a lesson on asking for discounts at the store.

That needed to be covered...."Correctly"  Thanks!

 
RealEstateInvestor

Posted By: RealEstateInvestor on 05/03/2008
I'm a big believer in this concept.  Yet out of fear of really nothing, I have sometimes neglected asking for a discount or other types of things.  It's good to be reminded of what some people call "The Aladdin's Lamp principle".  And yes as J. Reyne here posted, it's also written about in the Bible.  Such words of wisdom to live by.

Thanks for the blog post.

Best of success,
Joel 
 
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J.Reyne & Associates©

on 05/03/2008

Bible says: " Ask and you shall receive!"

Something so simple can frighten even the mightiest giants!

 

This needed to be covered... Thanks!