"The ordinary man is passive.  Against major events he is as helpless as against the elements.  So far from endeavoring to influence the future, he simply lies down and lets things happen to him."

-    George Orwell (1903-1950) Famous journalist, political writer, and novelist
 

"The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man."

 - George Bernard Shaw (1856-1950) Pulitzer Prize Winner 1925
 

"Why are there so many Georges?"

 - Pre$ton (birthdate unknown – he may be an angel) Once got 13 girl’s phone #’s in one day 2003

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"Stop being a wussy."

That is dating/pick-up expert David D’Angelo’s message to men all around the world.  Women are sick of wussies.  How do I know he said this?  Because he is a genius.  I’ve bought everything he has ever produced, and I’m not embarrassed to say it at all.  The whole "why are you dieting when you’re so skinny already?" thing applies here.  Plus I had temporary dreams of becoming a professional pick up artist at one point and time. 

Money doesn’t seem to like wussies much either.  It tends to not come around them too often.  Most wussies I know are so broke they can’t even pay attention.

You’re not a wussy…are you?

My vitamin for your mind this week actually applies to you too ladies.  If you’re in business that is.  And it has nothing at all to do with the Venutian Arts although I actually have a lot I could say on that subject.  We’ll save that for another life.

My message to you this week is simply this:

Stop being so dang nice.

Nice people are broke.  Every time.  And broke people can’t feed their children.  I don’t call that nice.  Modern culture often confuses "niceness" with "goodness" when in all actuality those two terms couldn’t be farther apart in meaning.  I’ll be "good" as often as possible.  I’ll be "nice" rarely. 

Sound mean?

Consider that the common "nicety" is really no more than a counterfeit expression of kindness rooted in fear with the intent of making sure you like me so that my weak wussy ego doesn’t suffer.  9 times out of 10, "Nice" people are actually "manipulative" people.  "Good" people tell it like it is with an ounce of grace.  They could care less what people think.  And I didn’t copy that out of a text book or any other thing for that matter.  It came right out of me, and frankly I’m pretty impressed with it!

"I do not receive honor from men."

 - Jesus

Good people are strong.  Nice people are weak.  Good people have power to help others.  Nice people have only words to talk about helping others.  Good people have true wisdom which manifests itself in a prosperous and meaningful life.  Nice people have mere head knowledge which manifests itself in me making fun of you in my newsletters.  : – )

Hey You
Stop Being So Nice 

Toughen up.  Stop allowing others to have their way with you all the time.  They only do it because you let them.  This is YOUR world.  YOUR reality.  Act like it!

Did you know that you are experiencing life right now exactly how you want to experience it?  Why do you want things so difficult?  What purpose is that serving for you subconsciously?  Why do you believe the things you believe about life?  Is it because your parents raised you that way? 

It is time for you to start taking control of your life.  No one is going to do this for you.  Get angry for once.  Shoot, I’m angry every darn day.  I’m mad right now for crying out loud.  I’m mad at everything that causes anyone to suffer in this life and I’m out to fix it.  I’m doing my part.  Are you?  Or are you sitting around complaining about your life when it’s mostly your fault in the first place?

I honestly could write for a hundred pages right now.  One day I will, and you’ll see it at Borders for $21.39.  I like odd numbers.

Let me wrap up by cluing you in on a common social dynamic that you may not be aware of.  Whenever you have two or more people in the same room or on the phone conversing or whatever, something very important is going on that you need to know.  And that something is this: 

Each person is trying to figure out who the leader is.

Did you know that?  It’s true.  And here is the interesting part – whoever believes the strongest that he is the leader, gets to be the leader.  The person who believes in their own reality the strongest wins every time.  Their reality becomes everyones reality.  Well that person is rarely referred to as "nice." 

And he or she is never ever a wussy.

Here’s the bottom line – you being a wussy is total bullcrap and everyone around you is sick of it.  Including me.  Stop it!  Consider this mental surgery on your dome.  The wussy has got to go.  On the count of three I want you to get real ticked off, scream the following words – "WUSSY BE GONE!", picture a wussy spirit that looks like Michael Jackson moonwalking out of your body, and then punch yourself in the face.  Ready?  One, two, three – "WUSSY BE GONE!"

Feel better? 

© 2009  R. Preston Ely  (Don’t steal my stuff.)
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